Assalamualaikum.. how guys doin? Good??... Dah minum petang? harini as usual anis ambil simple breakfast (BB plus collagen and one piece of bread) thats enough. Jaga badan juga kawan-kawan. Even im already in small size. Biasalah orang malaysia sekarang mesti nak nampak cantik depan semua orang. Bila cantik orang lain pun suka tengok kita dan kita sendiri pon suka tengok diri kita sendiri kan.
So, today anis nak story about penolakkan. You guys pernah tak ditolak. Contoh: pergi interview then tak dapat, or nak berkawan dengan someone tapi dia tak nak kawan dengan kita. Itu satu penolakkan kan?. So, when you guys dalam situasi itu what are you feel? it is happy? angry? ada tak sometime feel like give up? tak nak lah cari kerja lagi aku pergi interview semua tak nak terima aku. Aku ada kelulusan, result pon not bad. Tapi kenapa kita ditolak? pernah terfikir?
Change yours attitude. Sometime kita terima banyak penolakkan diri akibat dari our attitude. Mungkin tak kena dengan cara yang betul. Atau mungkin cara kita buat orang tak selesa dengan kita. Be brave itu harus. Kalau you all tak ada keberanian of cause you always ditolak.
Here i want share someting that happen to my friend. She's married,26. Her size memang agak besar sikit about XL. Then dia memang berniat dan tanam azam nak kurus untuk suami dia. Even her husband never complaint about her size, tapi she's want to look nice, beautiful and perfect infront of her husband. Then she know i sell corset and some set kurus. So she directly come to me and ask me about corset. She's said she want immediate shape. Dia nak nampak kurus cepat. So, i suggest her to use our corset because corset memang cepat dapat immediate shape. So, before she buy as usual she ask husband first. Then, her husband 100% disagree about she wanted to buy corset. Alasan her husband is awak tu dah cantik tak perlu nak pakai corset, dah la corset tu mahal, daripada awak beli corset yang harga dia 2 ribu lebih tu baik awak beli benda lain. So, my friend start give up and tell me that she cancel to buy corset as her husband disagree. So, disini kawan i dapat penolakkan dari her husband and she give up because of kata-kata husband dia. As your self you kena berani untuk membuktikan bahawa apa yang anda azam tercapai. Jika anda betul-betul niat untuk kurus for someone that you love. You should did it. So, i tell her. Its ok, normal lah kalau husband tak bagi beli corset because knowledge lelaki about corset sangat tidak meluas. When they psycho us we psycho them back. haha kan? So i suggest to my friend you try wear corset and show infront of him. So then one day she go back as usual. Masa tu dia dah pakai corset. Tau tak apa husband dia kata apa kat dia? he told to my friend why you look different and more beautiful. When my friend tell that she wear corset banyak kali husband dia cakap yang husband dia tak percaya.. and surprising husband dia support 100% she use corset.
moral : jangan judge sesuata benda without you see or know the truth . Be brave and confident with ourself when we get penolakkan . Try dont give up even penolakkan itu sangat menyakitkan.
